-sweet post pics when you get the sharkfin on
-I am running TRD springs and have never had any issues, ride is near stock and handling is much better than stock, BUT I have heard really good things about the DF210's, the stance is perfect, and ride quality is not compromised...
-depends on what kind of wheels you want, but I usually look through wheelsnext.com, or wheelmax.com
-I am running an 8000K hid kit from ebay, hasnt steered me wrong yet, color is fairly blue, but not extreme.
-Tint was one of my first mod too, always a good choice
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